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Monday 30 December 2013

REALITY CHECK #33 - LESSONS FROM A GAME OF CHARADES

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I played a game of charades this evening in the company of other friends all divided to three groups. My group which took time in deciding on the name of the group and its leader, had a strong team in terms of number and intellectual capability. My group was named SWIFT and was the first to take turns, a member of the third group or someone who was not to be in any group at all was attracted to what he saw and envisioned our capabilities. So he ported to our group and was making funny suggestions to every demonstration from any of the groups, we ignored him and for every round that we got our answers right we excluded him from our celebration though he was keen on being part of our group. We were guessing the dramatization by all the groups right, but there was to be no bonus, the time keeper was either keen on not giving us time or the other teams saw something wrong with how we played. When it was my turn to demonstrate, my first try was disqualified for trying to make an alphabet with my hand, my second try was disqualified because the unwanted addendum who had been guessing wrongly all through finally guessed right this time. There was an uproar, we couldn’t have the full point at least they said, because he was not part of our group. We team SWIFT members got angry and said we had had it, we were no more participating. We skipped two rounds willingly, then the moderator came at the third round and told us we either continued or our group would be dissolved for the rest of the program, we either kicked out the Jonah in our midst or keep him and be nullified because we were giving disadvantage to the team that claimed he was part of them. We kicked out the Jonah in the end and continued the game, in the end we came second place. I was hurt L and sulked a little, seriously anyways but I felt sentimental about having not to be the winner at the game with the advantages we had and the promise from the start of the game.
Lesson learnt:
ü  Success attracts challenges, it also attracts familirisation
ü  Competition is won in business most times by ability of the team, and what each person can do, an educated guess at our strengths and weaknesses worked well for my team.
ü  Team cohesion in the right direction also gives a competitive advantage. In the face of repercussions caused by the Jonah getting it right for the first time and our score being divided to two, team SWIFT should have accepted it after our opposition and continued the game. Then come out triumphant despite the challenges.
ü  Opposition are persistent of ways to break in to the weakest link in the chain
ü  Respond and do not react to the opposition you face irrespective of how many times they have come.
ü  Don’t stop what you are to do or who you are to be because of a sudden opposition or challenge
ü  Talent is never enough
Thanks.

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